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This evening while we were getting ready for bed, I said Cale and I would sleep on the air mattress tonight. (The room's bed is just too hard for my hips and side-sleeping.) Daddy said, Oh, we'll need to inflate the air mattress some more.

Cale understands a lot more of what we say than we give him credit. He toddled right over to the air mattress as soon as he heard that, he put his mouth to the valve, and he puffed!

Oh.

The Crab

We had a tasty dinner (I had mango crab cakes, yum!) with an outstanding view and a great breeze this evening at the Tower Bar. When we came down the stairs to pick up our double stroller, Karston noticed two holes in the ground in the natural area (rocks and plants) around the tree base. Karston grabbed Mary's hand to go investigate with him. (He's fascinated with holes in the ground right now. I would make jokes, but he wouldn't get them at this age.) Karston bent over to peer down the farther hole when a hermit crab scuttled out just into view! Karston screamed loudly, impressively loudly, AAAH! A CRAB! I'm sure the whole restaurant knew that Karston was surprised by a crab. In fact, the cook came out of the close-by kitchen to make sure he was ok. Karston also quickly jumped behind Mary and peeked around her knee at the crab who scuttled back down his hole. He pointed to the closer hole, Mary, what's in that hole? She replied, I think that crab's friend lives next door to him. Karston very confidently said, Well that crab is no friend of mine!

We're still laughing about that. Eek, a crab, no friend of mine! You never know what you're going to hear, and sometimes it's quite funny.

HFM

Cale hasn't been sleeping well for the past week. Motrin, started Sunday night, seems to help him sleep. To add to the fun, I was coughing last Friday night: from nasal drain, to sore throat, to cough.

So for his fifteen month birthday, Cale got a fever. He woke me up at 4 am to tell me he didn't feel well. Luckily, infant Motrin took care of that fever, but I took him to see the doctor this morning (Cale weighs 21 pounds 14.3 ounces, and has a normal temperature after the Motrin). She says he probably has Hand, Foot, and Mouth disease (with pictures) because that's going around; sometimes the only sign is 2 or 3 days of high fever of 101 to 103 °F. In a nutshell, it's caused by several virii including several types of the coxsackievirus (an enterovirus) and symptoms include a rash on the hands and on the feet and in the mouth, fever, sore throat, decreased appetite, or irritability. It's more common in children, especially under the age of 10, because adults have an immunity to any of those virii if they've been exposed. Other than that, it's highly contagious, so I expect we'll all get something (unless we've had that particular virus before).

We're hoping for a fast recovery, before we fly to Key West on Sunday!

Pointy

Cale's upper canine teeth just poked through. His gums are swollen around these two teeth, the points have just come through, and Cale is gnawing on everything in sight. Teething is one of Cale's few reasons to be fussy and to wake at night (along with illness and growth spurt). I hope these sharp teeth come through quickly!

One fish, two fish ...

After dinner, I said I would tackle the mountain of dirty dishes if Daddy took the kids out to run off some energy (he loved that idea!). So I'm a little sorry that I missed this one, but at least our kitchen is much cleaner now.

Daddy, Karston, and Cale put on their life preservers and went in the pedal boat on our lake because Karston wanted to fish. Karston and Daddy brought their fishing poles. Cale sat between them in the boat, and he kept climbing over to grab Daddy's fishing pole. So Daddy let Cale hold the fishing pole. Twenty seconds after Cale started holding his fishing pole, it started to wiggle! Cale caught a fish! The routine here is that the fish-catcher (almost always Karston) and Karston get to touch the fish before we release it. So everyone touches the fish before he swims off, and then Cale gets to hold the fishing pole again. But whoa, whoa, what's this? Another fish on Cale's pole!

Cale held the fishing pole with a line in the water four times, and he caught three fish! I didn't know he was going for the title of world's youngest fisherman or I would have sent him out fishing before he was 14 months old, but it seems as though catching three fish at his age should be some sort of record. I'm sure he's the youngest person to catch fish from our lake. He's a talented child, and I think he loves fishing as much as Karston!

Whooping Cough

We took the kids to the doctor (yet again, for the third or fourth time in a week or two), and Karston has whooping cough. If you listen to the "Sound of a child with whooping cough WITHOUT whooping" link, that's exactly what Karston sounded like last night just before he threw up. Karston's symptoms match a pertussis diagnosis quite well, so Dr. Goldbach made a savvy call.

What I learned from some online research is that you can get whooping cough even if you're vaccinated, but you get a milder case (so even if it doesn't prevent all pertussis, the vaccine is still a good idea); the vaccine also wears off over time if you don't get a booster. Adults are a "reservoir" of pertussis since we get milder cases, and the transmission rate within a household is 75 to 80%. Most pertussis is mild, and goes largely undiagnosed and unreported. Most people with whooping cough don't make the whooping sound; only about half of the infected children do. Whooping cough has also been called the hundred day cough (ick!).

So that means this week, both kids are on an antibiotic that tastes vile. Poor kids! However, it's the only way to keep Cale from catching whooping cough, and I don't want him on this ride.

Ear Infection

The past two nights, Cale has woken himself up coughing and he clearly feels just awful. And when Cale can't sleep, I can't sleep so I rushed through breakfast to take him to pediatric walk-in this morning. Cale weighs 21 pounds 5.6 ounces, and he has another ear infection. So that's what it means when Cale can't sleep at night but he's not teething, on a growth spurt, or suffering from his allergies. Poor guy! At least he's very agreeable about taking medicine. Cale will take any medicine, even if it's nasty-tasting, if you offer it to him. He might need a juice chaser and small dribbles, but he'll take it. On the other hand Karston just won't take medicine, no matter how sweet-tasting, no matter how many chocolate bribes I offer.

As it turns out,

milk allergies are often the underlying cause of repeated colds and ear infections (ref),

so sneaky milk could explain the ear infections.

Nutrition

We signed Karston up for a research study on nutrition. To kick off the study, Karston was measured this afternoon: 26.8 pounds and 37 inches tall. I hope Karston won't skew the study too far into the weeds of poor eating habits! I do hope we learn something effective for better eating: how to encourage him to eat more food, and to eat healthier.

When It Rains ...

As if Cale fussing, coughing, and waking all night weren't enough fun, Karston had a fever with heartburn (seems like an odd combination to me) yesterday. He didn't want Motrin either. This afternoon I left work early because Karston said he would only take Motrin if I gave it to him. So after I gave him some medicine, I drove right back where I had been to take him to the pediatrician.

At the doctor's office, Karston weighed 27 pounds (even, no ounces!). Dr. Starnes said Tylenol should be easier on his tummy than Motrin. I never would have guessed that since Tylenol (acetaminophen) often gives me stomach cramps while Motrin (ibuprofen) never does; however if it works that way for most people, it's worth trying. She says he looks fairly healthy, so just see if this clears up within two days.

Unfortunately, Karston wouldn't take anything at all this evening, from anyone. I tried for a while after a long time of coaxing Cale to sleep. Now that Karston's asleep anyway, Cale has coughed himself awake and now he's sad. I'm the revolving door of mommy comfort! If I can have that with a side of sleep for myself, I will feel better tomorrow.

Cale Walks!

This morning we rode the carousel at Northgate! The kids love it!

Cale decided not to take a nap this afternoon. About 3pm, Cale was still hesitant about walking. Around 4pm when we encouraged him to walk, he took off! Two Fridays ago, he took his first two steps for Amy, fell down, and wouldn't try it again. But three days later, on Monday, he was enjoying going down the slide and taking two to four steps to Mommy before jumping in my arms and asking to slide again. He did that four times, so it wasn't a fluke! We've had two weeks of Cale taking a few steps unassisted before reaching for one of us and falling into our arms. Later this afternoon, he walked six feet unassisted with a huge proud grin. I can't believe a young child who spiked a fever Friday afternoon that didn't break until last night (and I'm sure he still feels awful although he's been remarkably agreeable considering) is mastering a complex new skill less than a day after his fever dropped.

Poor little guy just woke up to tell us he feels awful; he wasn't as recovered yesterday as I hoped. His sound is somewhere between a cry and a groan. Yet he was determined to learn to walk instead of taking an afternoon nap!

So one month after his first assisted steps, Cale is well on his way to unassisted walking!

Stairs

About three weeks ago, Cale told me that his favorite activity was to climb up and down our carpeted stairs. He did this for 45 minutes, with me right behind him to prevent falls, while Karston napped until I was bored. This evening Karston and Cale were playing very happily downstairs, so we rushed upstairs to wash up before the bedtime routine. I finished first, and as I was headed down the hall to go back downstairs to the boys when who did I see crawling down the hall towards me but Cale! He had a very proud look on his face too! He went up the stairs all by himself, and then had to find someone to see his boast in action! Independent little fellow.

Cale bounces quickly: two days ago, I was unusually tired and Cale was running a fever. Today he's not running a fever and he feels better, except for a slight cough, so he's already tackling new skills like stairs.

Egg Math

Karston really enjoyed hunting for Easter eggs this year. He keeps staging egg hunts throughout the house with the plastic eggs. This afternoon he also had an empty egg carton as part of the game. First he put his plastic eggs in the egg carton, and then he announced Mommy, I'm going to boil these for five minutes as he went around the door. He came back a second later, and I said I prefer hard-boiled eggs, but those take ten minutes. Karston came back with a quick answer, OK, I will boil these for five more minutes.

I assume having five fingers on each hand for ten total makes this easier, but he knows 5 + 5 = 10 already!

Fearless

For Mother's Day, I learned that Karston is fearless. In fact, I almost wish he weren't so brave because if he had a sense of self-preservation then I wouldn't have to worry about him every second. Daddy has been reading some Scholastic books to Karston, and one was about being afraid. Not only was Karston not afraid of the examples, he said I want to go on a roller coaster! when he saw that one.

When Daddy asked me what I wanted to do in the evening for my Mother's Day, Karston said I wanted to go swimming. So of course that was what I wanted to do, and we all suited up for the hot tub. Both kids were in their floats bobbing around when Karston said he wanted to swim. I thought he meant Jeni's game where he leaps from her arms to my arms and back again, so I showed Daddy how to play. That was a good start, but he really meant that he wanted to learn to swim. The hot tub is shallower and smaller than most pools, we were both there, and Cale was happy in his float. So we showed him how to float on his back, but he said he wanted to learn dog paddle. (I don't know where he picked that up, but he remembers everything interesting.) Cale didn't like the splashing (when he wasn't the one splashing), so we hopped out and I hovered after Cale and I were dry. Karston learned that bobbing up really high also causes him to sink low, and that came with a big gulp of water. Ick! He coughed that out, and threw up ... and insisted to swim some more. Many times he went under for a second before Daddy lifted him up, but he kept going. He even threw up again, but didn't want to stop. Finally when he was clearly worn out, I scooped him out with his favorite towel. Karston was sure he should keep going, but he could barely stand. He's not afraid of the water, not discouraged by swallowing water or by throwing up, and not willing to slow down when he's exhausted. I could wish for more caution, but Karston is one brave child!

Sand Bar

Late last week, Daddy's cousin Mike and three of his friends came to visit us. Friday, everyone (except me and Cale) went to Wilmington to ride to Swansboro on Joe's boat. Karston loves riding on Joe's boat, and talks about it for months afterwards. (They did this same trip last year too.) Since this low tide was exceptionally low, Joe's boat got stuck on a sand bar, and they had to wait (and wait) for a tow.

Daddy and Karston came home last night. Karston had a great time playing in the bath, and when we checked on him, he was bunching up the washcloth, stranding his boat on it, and calling Help! I'm stuck on a sand bar! I need a tow! Karston thought this was the greatest bath-time game ever! I'm sure we'll hear many more variations on this theme. Guess what event stuck in his mind?

First Assisted Steps!

This afternoon when Karston went potty, Cale had a moment of wishful thinking, and thought it was bath time! After all, we did tell him he was getting a bath in the evening, and bathtime starts with Karston going potty. I was helping Cale stand up after a diaper change, and he started to charge, so I held his hands and we ran to the bathtub! Although he had assistance from me the whole way, Cale took his first steps today. And these weren't hesitant steps, either! He was running!

I helped him walk after dinner and that beloved bath, and Cale was already much steadier at assisted walking this evening. I don't think he intended to run to the tub this afternoon, but this evening he enjoyed a few short, purposeful strolls. I know I've been saying it for a while, but I think Cale's just about ready to walk!

Chasing

Cale gets some strenuous exercise (and then sleeps well at night) when he and Karston play at Mimi's house on pretty days. When we dropped Karston off at preschool this morning, Ms Jan was telling us that they were a sight to see, with peals of beautiful laughter echoing through the neighborhood. The game is Chase: Karston drives his Big Wheels up the ramp and Cale chases after him in his walker. Yes, Cale hauls himself and a walker that weighs almost as much as he does up that ramp! Then Karston turns around and free-wheels down the ramp (easy) while Cale turns around and chases him some more (hard). Yesterday afternoon when we picked them up, we watched a few rounds of Chase. Karston lifts his feet and zooms down the ramp; Cale powers into it, little legs pumping fast, and chases him. Cale has very strong legs after a number of weeks of this! Cale eats well, sleeps well, and is surprisingly strong.

An Easter to Celebrate

Easter on its own is always reason to celebrate, but the last two have been especially special. Last year, of course, Cale was less than a week old when we celebrated Easter. This year it's a completely different reason, but we're still thrilled: Karston pooped on the potty! He knew when, he ran, and he didn't sit for long. His reward is a small football, and he loves it.

In more traditional Easter activities, Karston was adorable in his preschool Easter parade on Wednesday and he will still sing his "In My Easter Tie" song for you. He was not, ahh, just not very competitive at his preschool's egg hunt that day, though. The Easter bunny stopped by to hide two eggs for Karston to find that also happened to lead him to breakfast. This afternoon we joined Nadia and Tasha for a church Easter egg hunt, and he was much more intent on collecting many plastic eggs this time. In fact, his basket was overflowing! He enjoyed most of games there too.

Down

Cale just gave me a huge grin, as if to say Watch this Mommy!, crawled to the one-step edge between the living room and the sunroom with kids' toys, turned around at the edge, extended one leg, and confidently slid down into the sunroom. I've never seen him enter the sunroom on his own! He used to go forward until he crawled over the edge, did a face plant, and started to cry. Or he would crawl there, and cry with outstretched arms until someone helped him down. But now he goes by himself!

He's very proud of himself, and he laughed when he saw the surprised look on my face.

Lunch with Pictures

This afternoon we met Larry and Jen for lunch, like the old days, except Jen brought Nadia and Tasha because it's not the old days anymore! We all have kids now. Tasha jumped into my arms when she saw me, and said Beach? She really enjoyed the beach, even though we didn't expect it to "click" for a newly-two year old child. She gave me a picture that she and Nadia worked on this morning of us playing at the beach. I think we need to go back!

Uh-hunh

Cale seems to use the same baby words that Karston used, so Ha-da means play and Ah-da means again (so if you're playing with Cale and some aspect is really great, he says ah-da and we do that again; ha-da is to get you to start playing).

This morning before lunch, we went to the beach. (We thought about going to the Azalea Festival in Wilmington, but the kids didn't seem like they were ready for it. So we went to Emerald Isle instead.) Mostly I kept Cale in the shade since he can't run in the surf but watching the older kids would tempt him to try as hard as he could. However, when Nadia, Tasha, and Karston switched from chilly surf to sand castles, Daddy brought Cale over to join the fun. Daddy asked Cale, Ha-da? Ha-da? Cale gave him a wondering look, said Uh-hunh quite distinctly, and with a big grin, started playing with his daddy. First step from declarations to conversations!

We had lunch at The Bogue House (very tasty food, although Karston announced he doesn't like sweetened applesauce which is good news in my book) and met Rusty the town manager. He's a very happy person, good lunch company.

Measles Vaccine Rash

Measles Vaccine Questions and Answers says

Transmission of the measles vaccine virus does not occur from a vaccinated person, including those who develop a rash. No special precautions (e.g., exclusion from school or work) need be taken.

Nice to know Cale isn't contagious even to those who aren't MMR-vaccinated!

Doctor Update

Cale and I went to pediatric walk-ins this morning because he's got a rash.

On Friday, March 20th he had vaccinations for MMR (measles mumps rubella) and varicella (chicken pox). Cale is allergic to eggs, but just the uncomfortable kind of allergy, not worse. I would rather skip the anxiety of childhood diseases and take the vaccines! Cale also started a 10-day regimen of amoxiciliin for his ear infection. Cale is so agreeable, even when sick, that we were surprised he had an ear infection!

Starting Thursday, March 26th, Cale's morning diapers have not been as full as I would expect and nor does he need as many changes during the day, but he's also not eating and drinking as much as usual either, so it probably balances out. Daddy had his electric blanket on and Cale needed extra cuddles, so I don't know when Cale got hot, but he didn't cool down when I did when I got out of bed. However, Cale's palpable fever went down 10 minutes after we gave him a dose of Motrin, so it wasn't too worrisome. His diaper rash started looking bad today, and he rarely has diaper rash. However, rates of diaper rash double while on baby'mox, so I'm not surprised.

By Friday, March 27th, Cale didn't have a fever, but his diaper rash continued to get worse. He's still not eating well (only one 4 oz jar of pears total for Saturday and Sunday! he's been known to eat 18 to 20 oz per day before!), and he started to refuse to take his amoxicillin Saturday evening.

Sunday, March 29th, Cale had his last dose of amoxicillin in the morning. Sunday evening, my friend Jeni let me know that her kids' amoxicillin usually goes bad before the 10 days are up, and she's had bad results from continuing to give it to them anyway. So we made it to a strict 10 days, and Cale's not going to finish the bottle as I had originally planned. For the first time ever, Cale didn't want me to put cream on his diaper rash, so it must really hurt him now. He started getting mild red bumps on his trunk this afternoon. Another unusual symptom for him was that he was tugging on and scratching at his ears today, so I was concerned about his ear infection.

This morning the bumps had spread all over his body, and were an angry red instead of mildly red!

So we went to the doctor, and she said his bumps look more like measles. (The other choices would be chicken pox or amoxicillin rash. We're all hoping he's not penicillin-allergic, so we're hoping it's not amoxicillin rash.) I will give his a dose of Benadryl this morning to see if the bumps subside then resurge when the Benadryl wears off, and then we'll know. His ears are better, just some fluid on one side, so he's fine to stop the amoxicillin. His diaper rash looks like typical candida albicans, so I'll continue to treat it like that. If his rash gets worse and gets crusty then it's probably a bacterial infection (skin staph) so we'll treat it as such right away if it gets worse. I'm happy to know what to look for, for the worst case. And I'm happy to know this rash is probably just a mild reaction that won't bother him as much as it does me.

UPDATE: gave Cale Benadryl (roughly 1 mg per kg of body weight so 3/4 tsp) at 9:45 AM.
UPDATE 2: no reduction in redness or bumpiness at 11:30 AM. Measles, not amoxicillin rash! Whew.

Walker

No, Cale isn't walking yet! But this weekend, he came up with a new use for an ordinary household item. We have bar stools at the kitchen counter that are taller than Cale. Cale grabs a stool at about his shoulder height, moves it across the kitchen floor, and then follows it. He isn't walking unaided, but, with a bar stool, he is moving upright in the direction of his choice now! Since he can stand for 30 seconds without support, I expect him to start walking soon!

Cale has been practicing for his Toddler Tryouts this weekend ... I think his Terrible Twos could be a challenge! He's just been determined to get into as many things as possible, the more dangerous the more interesting. He's also been practicing his "mountain climbing" on me this weekend. However, he mellows out when we go for a walk outside, so he could just be stir crazy from all of this rain keeping us inside. However, with Karston and Daddy in Florida, he's also been sleeping better at night. I think evening bedtime with Karston is very exciting for Cale, but I can bore him.

Cruising

Oh yes, Cale is finally cruising. He has figured out that if the furniture is long, he can cruise from one end to the other before crawling to the next piece of furniture. Cale is unbelievably fast at crawling! His hips go side to side, and he really speeds past! When he's exhausted, his arms will go faster than his legs so he'll do a stretched-out belly flop on the floor, and then cry because he knows he can crawl better than that. Watching Cale crawl really accentuates what Karston missed from his bad tummy stopping him from crawling until he could already walk (Karston was never a speedy crawler, and rarely did it). He thinks cruising is pretty fun, and will stop to slap on the coffee table just to let us all know how delighted he is to move around, upright, on his own.

While brushing Cale's teeth this evening, I noticed he has two more! Yes, the poor child had two teeth punch through at the same, and to make matters worse, they're molars. I can't believe he's been fairly agreeable lately! Cale's so mild-mannered, he's sweet-tempered when he's in pain and has every right to be fussy.

Cale 1 Year Checkup

At his checkup this afternoon, Cale weighed 20.5 pounds for 29 inches tall with 18.5 inch head circumference. Those percentiles are 20th, 25th, and 70th. The rule of thumb, or so I have heard, is to double the birth weight at four months, then triple the birth weight at one year of age. Both Karston and Cale were about doubled in weight at four months, but neither tripled at one year. Karston was about 18 months when he reached the 3x mark, so we'll see how Cale does on that time scale. Cale's pretty healthy and normal. He has ten teeth, and is working on #11, which is a bit ahead of schedule. Maybe we'll get this teething over with sooner; rapid teething might explain why Cale chews on everything. I thought teething explained why Cale hasn't been sleeping well lately. However, he did have an ear infection, a better reason not to sleep well, so the doctor sent out his first prescription for amoxicillin. This was my first experience with electronic prescriptions. The prescription went to the pharmacy electronically, and I picked it up at the grocery store around the corner from the doctor (after they saw my insurance paperwork since this is Cale's first prescription). But he's a happy, healthy one year old boy!

ONE YEAR

I can't believe my sweet baby Cale is one year old now! He's a very fast crawler, and he can crawl up stairs (but not down, although he will take the face plant if that's how he gets down to get closer to Karston). He pulls up to stand, and he can stand unaided when he forgets to hold on (if he's holding a cookie, important work for his hands). Cale really tucks in to his food, easily out-eating Karston most days. He makes lots of sounds, but doesn't really talk yet. He laughs at so many things! He loves to play games and take baths, and does his most-est to keep up with Karston. Cale's a great little guy!

Pixie

Cale just came crawling down the hall as fast as he could (I was washing up in our bathroom) to let me know he had made the greatest discovery in the world! He found Karston's Valentine's candy leftovers, including a pixie stick (a paper straw with flavored sugar inside). Since Cale feels the need to have paper in his diet, he started chewing on it. Not only did he get paper, he got sugar! Oh, was he ever excited with this discovery of sugar inside of paper! He crawled as fast as he could to find me, and once he found me, he waved his pixie stick triumphantly over his head! As if to say, Look, mom, it's the best thing ever! This paper has sugar too!

Snow Imaging Ten

This morning we woke up to two inches of very sticky snow, with bare snow-capped branches in a winter wonderland. Cale didn't enjoy snow the first time, so I planned to stay in with him. (I also feel like I might get a sore throat, so indoor air is kinder.) Well, when Cale saw Daddy and Karston suiting up, he started reaching for Daddy, hopped out of my arms to crawl to Daddy... usually that means he's hungry, but he had just eaten. So I put Cale in his snowsuit (before the Abominable Snow Man grew up, he might have been an Adorable Snow Baby too), and then in the backpack. Daddy got quite the workout, toting Cale on his back and pulling Karston really fast on the sled. Our active terrier-mix dog Emma had a blast running around them too. Karston was so happy to wear his new hand-me-down coat that he got from Chris last night, I wasn't sure he was ever going to take it off. Karston says his formerly-primary coat is now Cale's because it little like Cale who's within 5 pounds of Karston so who you calling little?

This afternoon, Karston had his medical imaging referral from the pediatric GI specialist. He was very good for the abdominal ultrasound. I'm still impressed with the high resolution of the newest ultrasound machines! Next was the upper GI fluoroscopy, and as we feared, Karston wasn't up for the barium swallow. Swallowing is, I suppose, too close to eating, and he's rarely up for that. We tried to coax him into it, and I warned him it would get awful if he didn't drink his chocolate milk shake for the camera. Karston held on tight to my hands, and I regret scratching my nose because I can still hear him cry, Mommy, hold on to me! hold on tight! We don't want to repeat that. Despite parental trauma, Karston was a genuine trooper who didn't squirm. He scored a lot of stickers and a blue squeaky dolphin (think rubber ducky, but as a blue dolphin with a really loud squeaker inside). Afterwards, we let him pick what he wanted: green chips. I don't know why he said green chips, but despite the fresh snow coming down, we took him to Bandido's for green chips. He plowed down gummy fruit on the drive over, and then he worked his way through a whole lot of green tortilla chips. Wow, eating! If he were wondering, yes, if he eats like that regularly then he won't have any more appointments like we just had. He also talked me into three Hershey's kisses once we were home. He doesn't seem to have any structural flaws, so that's probably not it. We'll go back to the specialist in just over three weeks to see what's next to help Little Mr. "tummy hurting" Karston.

Just like that, Cale now has ten teeth. The first of his first molars, upper left, took forever to peek out. It was swollen, lumpy, and bothering him. The upper right first molar just popped out without much fuss (not that Cale slept well the past several nights, but that's not too far out of line either). I noticed it while brushing Cale's teeth this evening.

The Party

This afternoon we had a birthday party for Cale, his friend Chris (ok, my friend Jeni's son), and Chris' immediate male line of dad and grand-dad. Cale will be 1 in just over 2 weeks, Chris turned 2 last week, and the dads don't have to admit age. With the season, lots of people were sick (or maybe scared off by the forecast of blizzard at 4 pm that wasn't), so we had extended family and our neighbor Maria with her two girls over. 14 adults, 6 kids, and our basement wasn't crowded.

Baking for the party was interesting because both birthday babies have allergies. The train cakes were yummy even without milk, soy (in margarine), eggs, barley, or oats. However, allergy avoidance led to fairly healthy party snacks! Other than cake, we had fresh fruit and veggies, and rice chips with fresh guacamole.

Karston loves parties! Jeni brought over a hopping ball (a ball with a handle that kids can sit on to hop all around), and Karston hopped most of the afternoon and all evening. He loved playing with the other kids in our basement (he's Chris' height but weighs much less, and he's nearly four, almost twice Chris' age). The inflatable palm tree forest held up to rough kid play remarkably well! Karston asked if Chris' big brother Will (only 5 weeks older than Karston) could stay. Actually, he asked that with both arms wrapped around Will so Will couldn't go anywhere! We had to distract him with the hopping ball. Karston really liked Cale's birthday present of stacking bath cups. Bath play is a big hit around here; a fast bath takes us an hour.

Cale, who also didn't nap but is young enough that that really matters, didn't work the room as much. However, Cale did show me his two new favorite games with Amy, flick and mountain climbing. For flick, once he's eaten enough chips, Cale likes to flick small chip bits off of Amy's knee and laugh. Baby giggles are great, and from the sound of it, so is this game. Cale also likes to climb people sitting on couch mountain. He started sitting on the floor, then pulled himself upright. With some help from Amy, Cale climbed into her lap. Then, standing on the couch, he was just determined to climb over the back to see out the window. And was pretty happy to start over on the floor, ready for more mountain climbing again. Cale really liked his spinning race car toy, especially chewing on the handle, but also watching he cars go around.

Number Nine

Cale's ninth tooth, the first of his first molars, came through today. (Actually, I didn't check yesterday, but I checked Wednesday while waiting for the doctor.) I can't believe he slept seven and a half hours last night, after weeks of poor sleep, with a new tooth. This has also been the longest time between teeth eruptions since he got his first tooth. His eigth tooth came in just before he turned nine months old, and he's more than a week past his eleven months birthday. More than nine weeks without a tooth! Yes, Cale seems to be fast on teething.

The Specialist

Karston finally had his appointment with the pediatric gastroenterologist specialist this afternoon. (Finally! Over three months of waiting!) This morning when Karston said tummy hurting, we told him he would see the doctor today. This evening, Karston asked why his tummy was still hurting after he saw the doctor. Heart-rending!

Overall, my sense is that Dr. Litchtmann isn't too worried about Karston. Karston doesn't "show" well to doctors. He starts off shy, hiding his face in Daddy's lap. Then he warms up, starts laughing and then working the crowd. He's so happy that when we say he often screams at night from his tummy pain ... what we say (crying from pain) doesn't match what Karston presents (extra happy, energetic kid) to the doctor. The doctor's not worried about his small size (nor would I if I didn't think it were a direct consequence of his food aversion that's almost certainly due to his tummy pain). He wasn't even too concerned with the poor eating habits -- but he's going to help us look for the root cause of the pain, so this doctor is reading off the right page.

The positive outcome is that we have an imaging appointment Monday afternoon. First Karston will have an abdominal ultrasound to see that all his organs are the right sizes in the right places. Immediately after that, he'll have a barium swallow (or so they think ... swallowing is close to eating and Karston would rather not) and an upper GI x-ray. We really should see something; if not, the doctor will send a 'scope down to look (requires general anesthesia, can biopsy to check level of esophageal damage from reflux). So, as I expected, nothing got resolved today, but we're on the path to see what's wrong.

Like all of his recent doctor's appointments, Karston absolutely did not want to have his vitals measured, least of all his weight. I suppose he has heard too many times that he should eat more after he's weighed. After much resistance, we learned that he's 26.7 pounds dressed in winter clothes, and 35.75 inches tall. And he looks healthy.

11

Well, Cale's 11 months old now. This is his last "month" birthday before we measure his age including years. He has so much personality! He tells us when he's hungry and if he wants baby food or self-feeding, he wants to make you laugh, he tells me when he wants another bedtime story or when I should hurry up and finish the book. I looked at a picture of Karston when he was almost 10 months. They look very similar! However, Cale has already outgrown that outfit, and the next size up too. Karston had four teeth, while I can feel #9 about to poke through in Cale's mouth. Cale is crawling at high speed, while Karston didn't crawl. Cale must put everything in his mouth, while Karston wasn't quite that fixated. They both think Tinker Toys and wooden trains are great. Cale isn't as interested in Intellitainer as Karston was, probably because he's mobile and that beats a stationary play station. Unless it's his Leap Pad station to which he crawls and then pulls himself up to play with the knobs and buttons. He's come so far and grown so big! Shucks, he's already grown so much and developed more of his own personality in the last two weeks, it's just amazing! This week he learned to drink from a re-usable "juice box" with a straw! He doesn't have the hang of tilting a sippy back (or else he really enjoys having someone else do that for him!), but he sure knows how to suck from a straw. He's been on a kick of feeding himself crunchy food (rice chex), so we wanted more fluids in his diet before the dry food got uncomfortable.

Best Big Brother

Karston really is the best big brother Cale could want! This afternoon, I could not get Cale to take a nap. He was tired, clinging on to me and crying. When I set him in his crib, he shrieked. So I picked him up, and he cried in my ear. After an hour, I was tired of listening. So I strapped a very reluctant Cale in his swing. I pushed the button to start the rocking, but after one rock, the batteries died. Argh! Karston started to sing to Cale and push the swing, and Cale got much quieter. I left the room to get a coin to open the battery compartment, and Cale quit fussing at all.

Karston followed me, No, let me rock baby brudder to sleep! What else to say but sure, you do it? Karston got his xylophone so that he could play music while he was singing to Cale and rocking him. Cale was perfectly quiet when I wasn't in the bedroom, and Karston was very attentive. About four minutes later, Karston found me to announce that Cale was asleep. I checked, and he was sound asleep. He stayed asleep for a decent nap, too! Karston loves being in charge of his brother, and I love having such a good mother's helper! There are moments, of course, when two children are much more work, but there are many oases when the two boys have each other and don't want my full attention. Then, as long as I'm ready to drop everything and run when one calls, I can go to the bathroom (I did!) or cook dinner (I did!) and remember what adults do when we're not chasing children.

Yes, Karston really is this sweet!

Over The Top Circus

This morning, we met up with Jeni, her mom, and her two boys to go the 11 am circus, the Over The Top show. Karston finally settled in to watch the show; then he enjoyed it. I'm not sure he was as impressed as we were at some of the feats! Karston seemed to think if he were watching it, it must be reasonable. He liked the tigers because he likes kitties. Once the lights went down, Cale started watching. He seemed impressed with the aerial acrobatics at the start of the show. He got pretty wiggly after 45 minutes, and he started to nurse just before intermission. By the end of intermission, Cale was sound asleep, and he slept through the entire second half until we left at 1:30 pm.

So if you asked us how was their first circus, we were impressed with the daredevil stunts and we saw all the usual circus bits we would want to see. When we asked Karston, he said it was neat. I think he likes his elephant (the souvenir cup his snow cone came in) better than the show! And if you asked Cale, he'd probably say he slept well despite the noise. And why can't he have more long naps on my lap? We really enjoyed taking our boys to the circus!

After the circus, we were starved, so we went to Cloos' Coney Island. I was sure the one advantage to such a late lunch would be that we could get our food quickly. Before we got married and had kids, we would sometimes have a late dinner and split a pitcher over pinball, and we never had to wait too long. We waited at least 40 minutes for our hot dogs! Yes, just basic, top quality hot dogs! Well, on such a gorgeous, warm day ... everyone else was at Cloos' too. We still enjoyed that too, and both of our boys ate a french fry.

No Nap! No N-Zzz

Cale started to fuss this afternoon, so I picked him up. As soon as he got on my lap, he folded up and promptly fell asleep. So I promptly put him in his crib where he started to cry. He'd much rather cuddle when he sleeps. However, his crying wasn't as loud as usual, so I decided to leave him to cry for a bit. He was quiet three minutes later, although usually that just means he's playing with his blanket. Not this time! He fell asleep in his "let me out of jail" complaining position! Notice his hands on the rails, his head arched back in protest, his blanket kicked off, his legs out of his nest ... sound asleep. So Cale cried out "No nap! No nap!" until he fell asleep in record time.

Snow

It snowed last night, and Karston was very excited to go outside to play in the snow. (By play, I mean that Daddy pulls Karston around on the sled.) Karston could barely stand to wait through breakfast, although he ate unusually well for him. So Daddy and Karston went outside right away, while Cale and I bundled up. Overall, Cale was not a fan of the snow.



This is Cale's first snow, and he did have snowflakes fall on him. (I took him outside for his first rain too, a few weeks after he was born. It was a warm spring rain, falling lightly, and we went back inside as soon as I explained to him what was happening.)

Ten Months with Mobility

Cale is ten months old today! We've already figured out that he will need much more child-proofing than Karston! A month or two ago, he broke a child-proof (ha ha ha) latch on a cabinet door. Luckily he was only wandering around our kitchen in his walker, and he can't open doors from his walker (the walker itself is in the way), but we had to fix it right away. Monday he was clawing at child-proof outlet covers. He will require more safety awareness! Cale is now pulling up, but there's more! Yesterday, Cale started crawling! He improved so much just during the course of the day, too. He likes independent mobility!



Cale would also like me to let everyone know he is now an accomplished tongue clicker! After months of being fascinated when someone else would click at him, now he can do it for himself. Sometimes he clicks to amuse himself, sometimes he clicks to get your attention, and he's always proud of himself when he does it.

Pull Ups

I just set Cale down in his playpen (with bassinet insert, so he's higher) so I could brush my teeth. Cale enjoyed watching, and he reached out to bat my toothbrush several times. Still in sight, I went to the bathroom sink for my post-brushing clean-up. Cale rather quickly pulled himself up into a standing position using the playpen rail so he had a better view of me. That's his first pull-up, at least that I've seen! Cruising won't be too long after, after he's discovered what he can do once he's standing!

On-Off

Karston had a toy dog about 8 inches long that he usually calls Doggie; when turned on, Doggie will walk forward a few steps then bark while moving his head. While we were in Key West, Karston asked for the matching kitty (walks a few steps then sits and meows), so he got Kitty for Christmas. Well, for stocking stuffers, Karston also got a small dog and cat, not quite 3 inches long, that play music, walk in a circle, and then bark or meow.

Like all good children's electronic toys, these critters have OFF switches. Very important feature! Karston has heard me say as much.

So the larger one is Doggie, and Karston was asked what he called the smaller walking, barking dog. Karston quickly replied, My doggie's name is On-Off. Ah, yes, he knows what's important to adults!

Cale Loves Celery

Daddy cut two stalks of celery to eat with his dinner tonight. When he wasn't looking, Cale leaned over and stole one. Best Aquisition Ever! Cale cried if we took away any of his celery (what choking hazard?), he waved it around wildly, and he practised using his eight teeth to take bites. Needless to say, since celery doesn't dissolve like rice chex, I had to do a few finger sweeps and clean up little celery bits. Part waving-around toy, part forbidden (choking) vegetable, part biting practice ... what's not to love?

Pediatrician: Cale at Nine Months

Cale turned nine months old yesterday, and had his pediatrician visit for his well-child checkup this afternoon. Stripped down, Cale is 19 pounds 14.9 ounces (so close to 20 pounds!), 28.5" tall, and 18.5" head circumference. For his appointment, he flirted with his nurse and his doctor, and he nursed. He's up to date on his immunizations, so no shots this time. (With his egg allergy, he can't get the regular flu shot.) So until next time ...

After The Trip

It's much colder here, but it's nice to be home again too. I'm trying to think about what was new for this trip. Karston now associates candy with parade floats, and he especially likes lollipops (blue is good!) and small tootsie rolls. Karston ran circles for his letter O dance several times. Cale really does look a lot like Karston when he was this size, but we were still surprised when someone asked us if the boys were twins. Hmm, only one boy is walking and talking... Cale has gotten quite good at leaning for toys, and scooching, and rolling. You have to be really careful where you set him now; no edges and no dangerous items within a two or three foot radius! He ends up on his tummy, holding himself up with his arms, but he's not sure what to do next (crawl!) so he gets bored (his hands aren't free to grab) and quickly cries to be picked up. I think Cale is ready to start crawling soon!

White String Cheese

Last night, in his sleep, Karston said, "No, white string cheese!" At home, he quit eating white string cheese (mozzarella) in favor of yellow (cheddar) a while back. Luckily he decided to go back to white on this trip, because that's the only color I've seen in the various stores. Apparently he's so serious about this switch, he's talking about it in his sleep!

Back Hurting

All afternoon, Karston said his back was hurting. We listened with an adult filter, and assumed that his back was sore from sleeping on a strange bed, as is so often the case for traveling adults. Ha! We went to Fort Zachary Taylor State Park this morning, and Karston got a sunburn on his back just above his diaper. We noticed the sunburn when changing his clothes for bed this evening, and Karston pointed to it as the area where his back hurt. Then he wanted to see the red color in the mirror so he could know what sunburn looks like.

We need to work sunscreen under the diaper's edge too, but it's such a struggle to get any sunscreen on Karston that doing it right is probably wishful thinking if we want to have any hearing left. Like an annoying parent, whenever he said his back hurt this evening, I told him that's why we wear sunscreen! Maybe that will help a little with sunscreen application next time ... nah, that implies toddler logic!

Fort Zachary Taylor State Park has some of the nicest laid-back park rangers. I assume they know they have it made! I wish FZT could keep those nice shade pines: Cale took a nap in the shade while I read a book next to him; Karston and Daddy played with another family in the surf. We learned as we were leaving that the FZT snack bar now serves beer with their lunches (wow!), and even has a water toy exchange! We didn't bring any water toys on the airplane. What a park!

Travel with Children

One of the lessons for travel with children is not to over-plan your trip. In fact, you'll be lucky to get one accomplishment per day, and you need some unscheduled days in between to recover. Today was one of those recovery days. Karston kept wanting something back at the treehouse, so we kept turning back. We went back three times before lunch, and updated our morning plan to be to get somewhere for lunch.

Letter "O" Dance

Karston says he's doing the letter "O" dance; to the uninitiated, this looks like he is running around in tight circles. I assume the dance name is homage to Sesame Street. Since he hasn't had a nap yet this trip, we're happy to let him run off energy in the hopes that he will sleep well tonight so that we can sleep well.

Birthday Tooth

For my birthday, I wanted to get lots of sleep, and to get over this lingering nasal drip. Well, so much for sleep: Cale just cut Tooth #8 today. I felt around for it yesterday and it hadn't poked through; today it has. Now I can say my baby is eight months old and has eight teeth, for whatever that's worth. Cale's more interested in chewing on everything in sight than he is in fussing; he's fussing a little bit but is overall much happier than most teething babies. I wonder if he's getting used to teeth popping through?

A Christmas Parade

When we arrived in Key West, I wanted to start off with my usual fish sandwich. Guess what? Iguana Cafe is back! I missed their fish sandwich last time in Key West (when it was a hurricane-toppled-large-tree-left-huge-hole hole in the ground), so I was glad to see it again! Yummy. Karston and Cale ate french fries. This time last year, I could count the number of times Karston had had french fries on the fingers of one hand; now we know they are a good way to get calories in him! We decided to let Cale try french fries since he enjoyed boiled potatoes at Thanksgiving so much. A hit with both kids! Karston was so much older than Cale is now before he had fries ... all those lost calorie opportunities!

The cabbie who picked us up at the airport told us we should take the kids to the Christmas parade tonight. Wow. I had no idea what to expect, but I certainly didn't expect a parade that lasted almost two hours and had almost 80 floats! We also didn't expect that the floats would be tossing candy to the kids. Karston perfected the starving little waif expression, with his hand held out. Couple of candies, sure, whatever, toss 'em in my pocket. By the time both pockets in my shorts (yes! shorts at night in December! guess why I'm glad to be here?) were full, I realized that we were in for much more candy than I anticipated. I guess that's why we have a stroller with a basket below.

The Wi-Fi signal at our treehouse is weak, but who needs solid Internet access when you're on vacation?

Before The Trip

Since we're about to spend a week in Key West, I'll watch to see what new things the boys do. This week they already started doing new things!

Karston has started to ask WHY? all the time. By all the time, I mean he asks why again and again, without noticing that he's hit reductio ad absurdum. I went to school for a long time, and I can adroitly break questions down to smaller and smaller parts, but a toddler doesn't know the wall of elemental reduction (or the wall of "I'm not going to go any farther") so it's why why why. He's been doing this for a week ... maybe two.

Cale still isn't walking, but he loves propelling himself around in his walker. This week he changed that repertoire, though: he would walk away from people in order to explore. Cale is a very social baby, very likely to follow people for attention, so heading away from everyone seems significant.

Back to packing ... clothes for all, enough food and diapers for the boys until we can buy more, and small toys for the boys to amuse them on the plane. We could pack so lightly for just us, but we're packing toys, boo-boo fixin's, a double stroller, and a baby backpack!

... and a Yummy Thanksgiving Was Had by All

This morning, we loaded the car with food and folks, and headed to Opa and Grammy's house for Thanksgiving. When we explained this Thanksgiving plan to Karston, his first question was Opa and Grammy come here? (no, we're going to see them, and Mimi will come with us). When we started to explain that the rest of the immediate family would be there too, Karston jumped in, and Evan too? He really likes his cousin Evan now that he can run. When Karston was less sure on his feet, he preferred to play with Hayley, but now that he's older, he loves that Evan will jump on the trampoline for hours. Sure enough, Karston ran around after Evan all afternoon (who now accepts that his young cousin Karston is just plain going to follow him around), and they jumped on the trampoline.

A bonus to the typical Thanksgiving feast is that I didn't feel deprived by what I couldn't eat due to Cale's allergies to milk, soy, egg, and barley. I knew in advance that I couldn't eat any of the desserts, so I made a small batch of six cookies for myself. I had turkey (plain), stuffing, cranberry sauce, green beans made plain especially by Grammy for me (*smile*), plain baked potato, and salad. My mother remembered that I couldn't have commercial salad dressing, so she brought some for me, so I didn't have to eat my salad plain. I have to admit, I didn't miss the creamed corn, marinated veggies, bread, or pies with everything that I could eat. (As long as there's salad, I'm probably happy anyway.) Grammy made a side of plain boiled new red potatoes for me (although the baked potatoes were safe for Cale's allergies too), but I didn't know that until I'd finished my baked potato. However, Cale was interested in potatoes from Mommy and Daddy, so we gave him some from our baked potatoes. He wanted to keep going, so we quickly peeled the red potatoes for him. What a hit! Cale like small potato quarters that he can hold and cram into his mouth! I don't think he's had potatoes before, but he sure likes them! (And they're not likely to be allergenic. I actually planned not to introduce new foods on the holiday weekend just to be sure we wouldn't need to go to the doctor.)

After we were all full, we adjourned to the comfy chairs of the living room for Hayley's birthday and general relaxation. Daddy handed Cale to Uncle Chip for what he expected would be a minute of knee bouncing. Cale fell in love with the DJ voice, and would look up adoringly at Chip when he spoke. Cale was having such a nice time on his uncle's knee that no one else wanted to hold him: those adoring gazes were priceless! So snuggly Cale fell asleep on Chip.

We thought we would get a nap for everyone when we got home, but it didn't happen. On the other hand, they both went to bed easily. And so should I! Happy Thanksgiving, y'all!

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Pleased to meet you, 007

After a long session using my drawstring as floss, Cale brought out chopper #7. Yes, another tooth, this one lower left. I thought he was acting like teething, but it took this tooth a long time to appear. So far his teeth have appeared in pairs, so although it doesn't feel close, I wouldn't be surprised to see #8 within a week. Then maybe we can return to his earlier and better sleeping habits!

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Silence of the Chocolate

Our kitchen was quite, quite loud this evening, with both boys making commotions. I guessed that Cale was trying to tell us he wanted to feed himself again (he says it beats baby food, and he's done with baby bottles now that he's almost eight months old). I thought he might want a change from Rice Chex, so I opened a box of Cocoa Puffs. Karston stopped and said, Cocoa Puffs??!?! Let me tell you what's really nice about Cocoa Puffs: our kitchen got quiet. Both Karston and Cale think that Cocoa Puffs are good to put in your own mouth. Ah, blessed silence!

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Chocolate Cookie

Cale has reached "the cheerio stage" where he can grasp a moderately small item and put it in his mouth. A month ago, he didn't know what to do with them. Karston never had a cheerio stage because his tummy always hurts; his next pediatrician appointment to discuss this is Thursday. Cale's actually eating Rice Chex instead of cheerios because we don't know if he has an allergy to oatmeal but we do know he doesn't react well to barley, another gluten grain. House brand rice chex and corn chex contain barley, so Cale gets allergy-friendly Rice Chex. Several months ago, Mimi let Cale try a few crumbs of chocolate cake: he loved it! So this evening, I let him take a few bites of her chocolate cookies. Cale took a baby bite, yum. He tried to take a much larger bite, but settled out for another baby bite. Then that little hand came around and took my cookie! He crammed in as much cookie as he could over the next 20 minutes until I decided it was time to clean the crumbs from the disaster area. He likes self-feeding, a refreshing change, and just like Karston he likes chocolate! I'm looking forward to experiencing this cheerio (and Cookie Monster) stage of baby development for the first time.

Baby Banana

Cale stayed with his grandmother Mimi today while Karston watched the big equipment crane at Opa and Grammy's house after preschool. (Cale refused a bottle of milk, probably because it wasn't the perfect warm temperature he likes, and he only had a mediocre showing for baby food. He was definitely ready to nurse warm milk! when I showed up.) Mimi wanted to eat a banana when she was very hungry, but Cale informed her that she was required to share with him. I think this is the first time that he's eaten food that did not arrive in his mouth on a spoon! He took about half a dozen baby bites from her banana. He seemed to think it wasn't as tasty as mashed banana baby food, but he ate it and came back for more. Karston was much older before he ate bananas himself!

Big Orange Car(t)

Cale had a first today: his first time riding in a shopping cart next to Karston (not in his car seat)! We needed some grass seed, so we went to the really close Home Depot. They have orange carts with racing decals and two steering wheels for two kids. Karston showed Cale how to use his steering wheel, but Cale preferred to watch in awe as Karston used his. Cale did an excellent job sitting up on his own and enjoyed playing with (watching) his older brother, so I think he's ready for shopping carts now (at least when he's not tired).

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No Hot Dog

Karston's preschool had a Halloween parade (in costume) and banquet this morning. Ms. Jan told me that Karston didn't eat his hot dog, but he did have apple and cheese, and she let him go back for a second cookie. (Getting him to eat anything is the right plan! He didn't finish the second cookie, but he insisted I had to bring it home for later.) Karston very solemnly informed me, Sometimes I just don't like hot dogs. He cracks me up! I'm not going to argue with eating apples and cheese instead of kiddie hot dogs.

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The Bra

This is funny, even if it isn't G-rated. Cale got upset this evening when I was out of his sight, so he and Daddy watched me change into pajamas. As soon as my bra went on the night stand, he was fascinated with it. He stared at my bra more than me. Yes, the child who a minute ago said I couldn't be out of his sight found something more important to watch. Daddy moved him closer to see if he were staring at my night light lamp, but no, he really was staring at my bra. Oh my gosh, that thing gets to hold Mommy all day long? I want to have straps! I want to grow up to be a bra! (I think my running commentary speaking for Cale was what made Daddy laugh so much.)

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Race Car

We went to the State Fair this morning. We didn't make it to any petting zoos this time (Karston loved that last year), but we still loved it. I ran into an old friend from college and Karston won a car. We wanted to take Karston on the rides, but you have to be at least 36" tall for the rides, and it turns out that he's only 35" tall (at almost 3.5 years old!). Hopefully this Prevacid will help that!

Doctor

Karston went back to the doctor about his tummy hurting. We told him a few days in advance that we were going to go to the doctor to tell her about his tummy hurting, and this morning he very quietly said that he wanted to go to the doctor so she could help his tummy feel better.

The report is 25.9 pounds (dressed) and try Prevacid again. The Zantac worked initially, but now it seems like we're back to where we were before Zantac. So hopefully the proton-pump inhibitor will out-do the H2 blocker, as it should.

Happy Birthday

This evening during his bedtime routine, Karston kept saying, want to sing the birthday song to you Daddy!

Happy Birthday to you
Happy Birthday to you
Happy Birthday dear Daddy
Happy Birthday to you

Again and again, in that sweet voice. Instead of good night kisses, tonight Karston was giving out birthday kisses too.

This morning, for his birthday, Karston and I gave Daddy something Karston picked out at the store. Karston picked out a small catchers mitt and a ball (the mitt has velcro on the fingers, and the ball is the right kind of soft to stick to it), and he told me, I want to play catch with Daddy! Get it please! I want it! Daddy want it! I really, really didn't think any present this year could top Daddy's little boy wanting to play catch with him, so of course I got it. This evening, Daddy got a DVD set and a card, and Karston got a happy tropical shirt that looks like shirts Daddy likes to wear. (Karston likes to do what Daddy does, so he got a similarly-wrapped present so he could unwrap too.) Karston tried his shirt on right away! While holding the top button, Karston said very seriously, I figuring it out ... and he buttoned his shirt! He certainly figured it out quickly, since we've never seen him button anything before! He did the second button after I opened the buttonhole (new shirt, a bit stiff), and he asked me to do the third and lowest button because it was too far for him.

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Two More Teeth

Karston has all twenty milk teeth, so you know this post is about Cale. I just felt his gums, and Cale has two more teeth poking through today. He had four teeth yesterday, while today he has four teeth on top. No wonder he's been a bit out of sorts, since he has had a runny nose for a week, and two new teeth cutting through his gums. I hope Cale feels better, and resumes sleeping better, soon!

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Cale at Seven Months

When we first came home with Cale, I put ice in my water cup, and Cale startled at the loud sound of the ice dispenser. He flailed and looked quite worried. Ever since then, I've told Cale "this is going to be loud" before I do something loud, and he's been calm ... unless I forget to announce the loud to him. Yes, I know he's not supposed to understand words yet, but he's known about loud since his first week of life.

Cale seems so much older at seven months now! It's been over a month since I've seen his baby startle, where he would stick his arms straight out and wave them and wobble his upper body. However, Daddy did see a hilarious new reaction this evening. Cale was very happy today if he was touching me (I can see two new teeth coming in), and very loudly unhappy if he wasn't touching me. So in order to cook for the week, I had Cale in the baby backpack on my back so I could have my hands free while keeping his hands far away from sharp knives for chopping and hot stoves for cooking. Before I turned on the food processor, I told him that it would be loud. Cale did what he was doing for my every kitchen task: standing up in the backpack so he could lean over my shoulder to see what I was doing.

So imagine me at the kitchen counter with my food processor, and Cale leaning over my shoulder to see what I'm doing even though he knows it will be loud. Don't forget that he still has a very plump baby face. Daddy was facing us. When I turned on the food processor, Cale shook his head, jowls flapped, and Daddy says he did a dead-on comedic Nixon impression! I'm sure even R. Milhouse Nixon could have been cute at seven months old. And Cale is even cuter doing a comedic impression!

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Careful with Those Choppers!

I think Cale was testing his teeth this afternoon, getting to know them. Tooth #3 came in two weeks ago, and #4 late last week, so he just barely has two upper teeth to match the two lower teeth he's had for two months. Well, I heard him grinding his teeth this afternoon. I told Cale that he didn't want to do that. I think that made him grind harder! So I dropped the subject.

Apparently the right answer was distration, not information, and not ignoring. Five minutes later, Cale was a scary sight with his chin covered with bloody drool. His mouth looked like his lower teeth, several millimeters longer than the new teeth on top, had gouged just inside his upper dental ridge. I can't do that because I have teeth in the way, but Cale doesn't. Hoo boy did he cry about this too!

It's always traumatic to see blood on your baby, so I really hope Cale learned not to grind his teeth.

Cale: Six Month Checkup

This afternoon, we went to Cale's six month well-child-checkup. He is now 27" tall (75th percentile), 18 pounds 3.4 ounces (60th percentile), 17.75" head circumference (85th percentile), and up-to-date on his vaccinations (polio in the US in 2005: it should be history!). So although his weight at 6 months is Karston's weight at 15 months (other measures more like Karston at 10 to 11 months old), he's following Karston's pattern of higher percentiles for height and head circumference than for weight but overall fairly proportional.

Following the doctor's advice at Cale's 4-month wcc, I learned that I could eliminate his 5-times-a-day dark green poops (in exchange for once daily typical yellow ones) by eliminating dairy from my diet. This time, as a followup, I told Dr Starnes that Cale seems to sleep better at night when I also don't eat soy. She said that 60% of children with this milk protein allergy also have the soy protein allergy, so that fits. I was going to follow the scientific method and have some soy to see what happens, but I don't want to lose sleep just to prove what's already likely. Now that I have children, sleep is more precious than ever!

Cale didn't like getting his shots, but that could have been lying down (he wants to be held upright so he can look around) without being cuddled. He stopped within a minute of being picked up! So he's a real trooper about his shots too.

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Cale's Cold

Karston had a cold (runny nose, cough) this weekend, and now Cale has a runny nose. Cale was acting very upset, although I suspect that frustration trying to work out his poop. Of course, with the runny nose, he's not eating or sleeping as well as usual either. Since there was an acute care appointment available when I called late this afternoon and I drive by on my way home, I took Cale to the doctor this evening. Dr Goldbach agreed with me: he'll be fine. His ears and his throat look very healthy, so it really is just a runny nose (and nasal drain cough). The doctor said for this weight he gets 1.5 droppers (1.2 mL) of infant tylenol, but for this condition and this close to the recommended 6 months of age, baby motrin is a good choice too. Cale weighed 18 pounds 6.7 ounces fully dressed at the doctor's office, and he weighed 18.7 pounds (that's 18 pounds 11.2 ounces!) dressed this weekend, so he's clearly off his feed. Get well soon, little buddy!

Super Mommy

This morning Karston asked if I wanted to be a Super Mommy. I wasn't sure what he meant, but I knew the answer. As it turns out, all it takes to be a Super Dad or a Super Mommy is to carry Cale and pick up Karston. In other words, it means he wants the parent carrying Cale to carry him as well!

I think I started it last week, when I saw Daddy balancing both children and finishing up in the garage. I think I said, "Oh, Super Dad! Can I help you?" Karston didn't want to transfer, so I carried Cale instead so Daddy could have one hand free at least. Daddy says while he was carrying both this weekend, Karston tapped his chest, "are you a Super Dad?"

It's a pretty effective way to ask to be picked up!

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Parent's Lexicon

As a parent, you find yourself saying and doing things that your child-less self just could not have imagined. We first started laughing about Things You Would Never Hear Without Children about 2 years ago while Daddy was watching Curious George with Karston. The improbable phrase was, Thank you window monkey. This week's addition to the must-be-a-parent lexicon is Magic Poop Shoes. Cale has a very nice pair of grippy Geox shoes. When he's really pushing his legs to work out a poop, I put him in his walker with his Geox. It's the only time he doesn't move his walker all across the kitchen, even though the shoes should make that easier. Works like a charm to soil that diaper, though. Hence the phrase, magic poop shoes.

All About Mommy

Cale decided he was all about Mommy after I had lunch today. He wanted to touch me all the time; I finally put him in his backpack so I could walk around with both hands free. (I did such interesting things as laundry and toy pick-up.) He kept waking up within 2 minutes after I would set this sleeping baby in his crib. I put him in his walker so I could put some dinner on my plate. When I walked past Cale, he changed his cry, and then reached out for me with both arms! (It worked, of course. I was ravenous but it doesn't compare to my baby reaching for me!) Cale's really developing personality and opinions like that. After dinner that I ate on the couch so Cale could nurse while I ate, Daddy held Cale for a little while. This time, he could touch me when he reached for me with both arms, and he pulled my arm in for a great hug.

Cale is learning so many skills. He has been hugging us when we carry him for a while. He's been holding his head up for several months, with better trunk control shortly after. That one's nice because then we can carry him with one arm, and he will hug on and hold himself upright. He's got a good sense of his body too; his feet bounce with each step when I take the stairs, and when I bend over, he adjusts his head and neck while still clinging on with hands and body. Cale has discovered toys, too: some make noise, and he tries to put them all in his mouth. This morning's tummy time was an obvious demonstration of infant swimming, that motion before crawling, so I expect him to start crawling soon too. He has recognized bottles of milk happily for several months, and now he'll get calmer and happier when he sees baby food headed to his high chair. And if it's not baby food that he wants, he's learned how to pull down the neck of my shirt too. Like I said, he's really developing into his own person with a big smile.

Just before lunch, I picked Karston up from preschool. The children were called up, one by one or in small groups, to pick up a treat (looked like watermelon Starburst) and then to return to their seat (on convenient carpet squares). The task was to hold the treat until everyone had one. Karston was one of the first children to pick up his treat as the teacher went around the circle, and of course he had to be reminded that he couldn't eat his treat yet. He minded very quickly! At the end, however, another teacher had to step in quickly to prevent him from having a fit. You see, he had totally forgotten he had a treat! She made him look at his hands, then open his hands, then oh boy a treat! I got to watch that routine without being to hear what his teacher said but I could read his face easily. Daddy said That's my boy! because he also forgets when he has food all too easily.

Oh, and Karston's Zantac is starting to work, we think. He still doesn't snack much, but he kept eating dinner. He started with half of a blueberry Pop Tart, then veered into M&Ms before I could intervene, agreeably switched gears to eat 2 oz of sausage, passed near fried okra, lit into potato chips, and finished off with more M&Ms. If you know Karston, you know that's a remarkable amount of food with a surprising variety. So he seems to be eating better. He still complains about Minty and tries to get out of it, but he also takes it with a lot less fighting now.

Zantac, Day 2

Luckily, we had another family, conveniently experienced with Zantac, over for lunch today. I had researched online that you should take it 30 to 60 minutes before eating, so it's first thing in the morning, and when we start to prepare dinner. I wanted to know how long to give it to work, though. Zantac doesn't cause the immediate improvement in appetite that we saw with Prevacid, so we're still trying to decide if it really helps. However, the encouraging signs are that Karston said his tummy felt good after lunch and after dinner, and Jen said it took about 10 days for her to see a real improvement in Tasha as an infant. The flip side is that Karston grabbed a juice box of Apple & Eve Very Berry at breakfast, started drinking, and then said the juice hurt his tummy. So Zantac isn't protecting him from juice, at least not yet. We're trying to keep him on diluted apple juice as the mild choice. Karston doesn't like plain water (yet) or milk (and dairy can be an irritant itself, just ask Cale). So I'll give Zantac two to three weeks.

Minty

Kaston doesn't like "minty" as we call the peppermint-flavored Zantac syrup. We both have to administer it to have enough hands. However, each time he resists less (still cries and makes us feel like heels), so we think he can tell it helps too. This evening Karston ate more spaghetti than I've ever seen him eat before. We had to coax him to eat, but once he got started, he really pushed in the spaghetti. After dinner, I asked him how his tummy felt. Karston said his tummy had said, Karston, eat more food, and now it said Yay! So his tummy is still talking to him (such imagination!), and now it says Yay! Yay, indeed. We like that tummy message.

Cale is working on being a champion eater. Or Cale might be normal in his desire to plow down baby food, and we just have no reference for normal baby eating habits from Karston. Normal can be such a slippery, subjective term.

Doctor's Office, again

The Nurse Line last night said a doctor needed to check Karston after the post-Prevacid hives. Allergic reactions are more dangerous when they happen with the first exposure. (It's possible that he reacted to the 3 chocolate malted milk balls, too. He may have had a malted once before. But Prevacid is strong medicine and I want to be cautious.) So Daddy called this morning when they opened at 8 am, and we got an appointment for 9:30 am. We rushed through breakfast, having slept in after feeding both boys at 4 am.

The doctor switched Karston to Zantac. As an antihistamine (specifically an H2 / histamine-2 blocker, primarily in the stomach), it's very unlikely to trigger an allergic reaction. And yes, he's just fine; the hives went away almost as soon as they showed up, and speaking from personal experience, that's quite a mild reaction.

We're convinced that these reflux treatments are helping. Karston generally ate more when he was taking Children's Maalox. Given the taste and dose difference, we didn't give him Tums as often, and his appetite dropped way down, back to his normal paltry level. For his one day on Prevacid, Karston woke up both at 4 am and again at 8 am saying he was hungry. I don't think we've ever heard "I'm hungry" as the first words out of his mouth before. Since these treatments have all had immediate effects on his appetite, we think we're on to something. So we'll see how Zantac goes. We'll help that little tummy feel better soon.

Hungry

*yawn* Both boys are hungry in the middle of the night. I assume Cale is on another growth spurt, since that's what you do at his age; I just hope I have enough milk to get us through the night. We're guessing that Karston's hungry because that proton pump inhibitor really is making his tummy feel better; that's encouraging. I hope we're allowed to go back to sleep soon, though.

Whoops!

There's no telling if this is actually related, but about half an hour after Karston had his first dose of Prevacid, he said his legs and tummy were itchy. I looked at his legs, and he had what looked to be half-a-dozen mosquito bites, without the bite mark. Small raised white blister on red scratched skin ... sounds an awful lot like hives! I called the Nurse Line, and we're almost in the clear now (be alert for signs of respiratory trouble, especially in the first two hours). However, the nurse wants him to be seen by a doctor first thing tomorrow morning, so once again we're going to start a long holiday weekend by camping out in the waiting room. Gah. His tummy has no end of trouble.

I had to circle with a pen the hives (uticaria) that I could still see. An allergic reaction that goes that rapidly doesn't sound serious, but Daddy will sleep with him tonight to be sure.

Now don't think I'm not taking this seriously, but I do have a funny story about Karston's tummy. This afternoon at the doctor's office, Karston told us his tummy talked to him. No, not gurgles like Daddy and Mommy tummies, no it said Hi Karston. Really. He said that again this evening too. Just so you know, Karston's tummy talks. But it won't see any more Prevacid.

Doctor's Office

We went to the doctor (the new pediatrician who is very thorough) this afternoon to follow up from Karston's 3 year appointment. She had suggested he might have reflux, and to try an antacid for a while and let her know in about a month. When we were consistent with the antacid, Karston was generally eating more food! However, when we switched from Children's Maalox to the much-easier-to-find Tums, the flavor change caused Karston to use less. In a nutshell, I told the doctor she was brilliant, and what next. She prescribed Prevacid, to use for a limited time to see if Karston can heal on his own with a little help from Prevacid for a few months.

Once again, Karston was scared to have his measurements taken while checking in to see the doctor. However, we used my tape measure to see that he is 34.5 inches tall now, and subtracting out Daddy's weight he is 25.2 pounds (fully dressed) now.

Off to the pharmacy!

Daddy mentioned possible reflux to the mom of the other very small child at Karston's preschool, and Meg said her son was on Prilosec for three months but doesn't need it anymore. I found that very encouraging! I hope for similar results.

Preschool

Karston went to his first day of preschool today, with the other 3 and 4 year old kids. Afterwards, at lunch with Mommy, Daddy, Opa, and Grammy, he said he enjoyed today best. So 3/4 it is! We're very excited, since this one has more education: letter of the week, paint day, show and tell (speaking to the class about an item starting with the letter of the week), and educational units!

Afterwards, Opa and Grammy came over with presents. Karston liked all of the presents very much. He made short work of a page of stickers. He was excited about more books and small hand-me-down toys that look perfect for travel. He also really liked the two outfits for Cale. I mean, he really liked them. So although these two outfits are very reasonably sized as the next size Cale will wear, Karston wanted to try it on. So my small three-year-old is wearing a one-piece outfit intended for my five-month-old. OK, he's small. But he's already interested in more education at preschool and he is so sweet.

Playschool

Last year, Karston was the smallest boy at his two-year-old playschool and his pal Grace was the smallest of all eight children. Karston and Grace were invited back to two-year-old playschool for the first half of this school year (the rest of this calendar year) so they could enjoy being big kids for a while. Well, this time Karston was the smallest child there because Grace looks like she grew four inches taller! So my three-year-old is smaller than a group of two-year-old. Wow.

Karston and Grace were invited to try the 3 and 4 year old preschool tomorrow to see if they like it.

Waaah!

Cale just woke up with a heart-broken, heart-rending wail. He was in his crib asleep for 20 minutes, and now he's awake again. (I'm in for a long night! He wants to comfort-nurse when he's sad.) We just gave him infant tylenol for his (presumably) teething pain, and I hope that gets me several hours of sleep tonight. He is my Cale-friend, and we'll get through this together. I just may take a nap with him tomorrow, that's all.

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Friends

One nice thing about two children, or at least these two, is that they are such good friends. Karston kissed Cale when he was fussy this evening, and Cale immediately switched from fussing to laughing at Karston.

One of the bedtime stories Daddy read to Karston tonight was Curious George Goes To The Beach. When Curious George made friends with a crab, Daddy asked Karston if he would like a crab-friend. Karston said, No, I have a Daddy-friend. Then he pulled Daddy's arm around himself, snuggled in, and patted Daddy's arm. After his three stories, Karston came to kiss me good-night while Cale was nursing to sleep (extra drooling, extra fussing, extra chewing, and less sleeping: is the third tooth coming in?), and then went to bed easily. Usually Cale's the easy one to put to bed, but this evening Karston was in his bed shortly before Cale was in his crib.

Daddy-friend is a very lucky dad!

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Not What We Wanted To Hear

Karston didn't nap yesterday, unlike Cale who (as usual) napped like a champion. He fell asleep in the stroller during our after-dinner walk around the neighborhood, and was in bed by 8 PM (when Cale is usually in bed, but he was too hungry for that last night). Daddy had the dubious pleasure at 1:30 AM of hearing something you know we didn't want to hear:

Daddy, I'm not sleepy anymore!

His latest game is walking "Emma" on a leash. When Daddy was tired of playing Emma, Karston dragged around the inflatable flamingo "Mingo" until I remembered a toy from Fast Buck Freddie's: a small dog that walks and barks. Oh my, Doggie was a hit when we brought him out on Sunday! Last night, he showed Daddy that Doggie was under the covers with him (oh yeah, Karston sleeps under a light blanket now, after three years of kicking off the covers and snuggling for warmth). This morning, he shared his breakfast Pop Tart with Doggie. For a while, he was all about Piggy, but right now he's more interested in Doggie (and more interactive toys in general).

Five Months Old!

Cale is five months old today! He has grown up so much already, I'm just amazed. He has opinions (hold me!), he holds on and hugs (easy to do things while holding him), and he responds to facial expressions. He's a little person who can't walk instead of an infant who needs complete care.

He's been very hungry this past week, and it's been very difficult for my milk supply to keep up with his demand. And he bites when he doesn't get as much to eat as he wants! And he makes icky face for formula. So we're added the occasional meal of milk mixed with rice cereal to see if that helps, and he will lunge for the spoon! He's not great about swallowing, but he likes to try. So this evening we tried something new: baby food! Since he has tried to eat Karston's breakfast banana twice before and seemed to like it, we started with banana baby food. I can't say it was a success, but he did eat some. He opened his mouth for the spoon, but then scrunched up his face. Then he closed his eyes and shook his head with a big shudder. But when the spoon came back, he would start the process again. So he'll eat food, even if it's shudderingly icky! Wow. Still, we're getting calories into him that I didn't have to process first. Whew.

New Talents

This evening when I put a teether in Cale's hand, he was as disinterested as usual. It's good for chewing if I hold it in his mouth, but that's about it. I drank some water, and when I looked down again, Cale was holding it in his other hand! So now he can transfer a toy from one hand to the other, a great game in and of itself. He does seem more aware of his grip now. When we carry him, he doesn't just hold on, sometimes it's an outright hug. When he's tired, he'll hug you and put his head on your shoulder: delightful! Cale has also added new sounds, or at least a new louder volume to his squeal this week.

Last night just before bedtime stories, Cale was watching Karston from Daddy's lap. Apparently Karston rocking in his rocking chair is hilarious because Cale laughed until he got hiccoughs, and then kept laughing between major chest spasms. These boys really love each other, a pure joy to watch!

Earlier this week, Daddy asked Karston if he wanted to use the potty when he woke up. He did want to, and he went right away. The remarkable part was that his diaper was completely dry! Yes, the toddler who finishes a juice sippy during his bedtime stories stayed dry all night! I thought the order of potty training stages was awareness, #1, #2, then overnight. With motivation somewhere in there. Karston recognizes the urge for #1 but doesn't seem tuned in to #2 (yes, it happens). Motivation is weak, but if asked he'll tell you if he has to go, and sometimes he'll ask; sometimes he just wants to keep playing. This overnight dryness seems like we're still moving along the (slow) potty training trail.

Yum Yum!

Cale seems like he's always hungry, so this evening when he wouldn't fall asleep because he said he was hungry, we decided to try rice cereal. The Internet suggested that we feed him from a bowl with a soft spoon so he knows it's different so he doesn't take in more calories per ounce while still expecting the same volume for a meal from the bottle. We started with 1 Tablespoon of rice cereal powder to 1.5 Tbs breast milk, and that seemed too watery. We liked 1:1 better for the second Tablespoon-of-each bowl.

The first spoonful dribbled out of Cale. The second spoonful went in for the most part. Cale opened his mouth and leaned forward for the third spoonful! He even lunged for the spoon when he thought we were too slow bringing the spoon to him!

Yeah, I'd say it was time to introduce "solid" food to his diet. Maybe he'll sleep better (longer) with more calories in his tummy. He's been very hungry all night for a while now. I wouldn't mind a break of a good night's sleep.

Rub a Dub Dub

Karston and Daddy played repairmen outside this afternoon. Well, it was play for one of them! despite the hot and humid weather. About the time they came in, Mommy experienced dual Wardrobe Malfunctions. First I noticed Cale's diaper had let more poop shoot out the back than it caught. Then, as I put the non-poop side on my shoulder to head to the changing station, he spit up on me. Two boys soaked with sweat, me and one boy needing a full change of clothes ... We decided this meant family bath time, so we all hopped in the garden tub. I think this was the most pleasant bathing for Cale so far. He sat in his Daddy's lap, chewed his hands, looked around with great interest, and had big smiles whenever he made eye contact with Karston. Cale really looks up to Karston!

After everyone else was clean, Karston stayed in the tub another hour playing "duck boat." Currently, Cale's usual bath tub is an inflatable duck-shaped kiddy tub for travel that quacks if you press its beak. It's a good size for Cale, and cushioned. And Karston finds it irresistable. So Karston sat in this duck boat in the tub, and paddled around happily for an hour!

Pediatrician Call

I'm really impressed with our new pediatrician. She called me twice with Karston's lab results. Yes, the doctor called me! I called her back this afternoon. Karston's blood work was all normal enough, but we may want to re-test thyroid in a month. She asked if reflux might explain Karston's poor appetite and consequent small size, and that really started me going. She said to start with children's Maalox, so we will. Before I told her that he often eats only one food at a time, sometimes only one food per meal (and rarely snacks between meals), she said that reflux children often do not like texture changes. That describes Karston perfectly, and then I was really on a roll. Karston won't eat egg yolks when he eats hard-boiled eggs because it's too much of a texture change. I've been thinking about it all day, and I can only come up with two foods that he eats with more than one texture. He will eat chocolate-coated doughnuts and bread with jelly. I think he'll eat the starch just to get the sweet treat. So that reflux guess of hers just sounded as reasonable as possible, especially with her suggesting a dietary characteristic before I mentioned Karston does that. (So thank goodness for the first pediatrician being on vacation; I'm keeping this one!)

Since I was talking to her, I complimented her on the allergic colitis diagnosis for Cale. After two days dairy-free (meaning I didn't eat dairy products to transfer to Cale), he was a differently pooping baby, and happy about it too. It's hard to avoid dairy; I ate a small amount of cheese yesterday for lunch (and had to pick some cheese off my lunch today, but hopefully I removed enough). Guess what? Cale was a lot more uncomfortable today after I ate dairy yesterday, and he reverted back to the old poop pattern. It wasn't much cheese, I'm surprised it set him off, so I need to be much more vigilant. This is going to wreak havoc on my lactase levels since I barely produce enough for as much as I love cheese and yogurt. If I eat zero of those foods for as long as Cale's nursing and he nurses over two years like Karston, I may never be able to eat dairy after that either. It's worth it for Cale to be more comfortable, though. It's also possible that Cale has more than one allergy. I had had a lot of soy the day before one very fussy day, and I had had a lot of eggs before two other fussy days. I wouldn't rule those out entirely either. But before this pediatrician suggested that I eliminate dairy from my diet, I had some every day. So perhaps I should have be surprised he had good days!

Anyway, she suggested a followup visit in a month, and I think I'm a convert. She's sharp and caring.

Letters

For the past week, Karston has been very interested in his books that teach the alphabet, especially Chicka Chicka Boom Boom. The last two-page spread has all the letters, uppercase and lowercase. Karston points to the letters, moving from left to right (although he jumps around not strictly top to bottom), and names almost all already. I'm impressed how quickly he is learning his letters, but I think he enjoys listening to stories so much that he's motivated to read. He also likes watching Super Why! and Sesame Street. Fun times ahead!

For his part, Cale was very talkative today, trying out his inflections, and being happy and cute.

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About Three

Thoughts on having a three-year-old around ...

Karston loves his safety scissors, an early (by more than a month) birthday present. The danger is that you must look at what he's holding when he says I want to cut! his birthday kite no longer has streamer tails ...

He's really interested in tools and repairs. He often says, I want to fix it!!! and you'd better be ready to let him help you. He said his playhouse, a birthday present that Karston and Daddy built with tools (all screws received finishing taps from Karston's plastic hammer), needed two door handles, inside and outside. Karston picked out the handles he wanted. He instructed Daddy where to drill, and he screwed both handles in all the way. Oh, and now that he has a playhouse, he doesn't build castles in his sandbox, he builds playhouses. And still laughs while kicking them down.

Karston also has a strong sense of identity. Last weekend in his cousin's play, he played a monkey, but he kept saying no, I Karston! -Who's Mommy's jumper? No, I'm Karston! -Who's Daddy's little helper? No, I'm Karston! -Who's Cale's big brother? Even that's not enough to get him to budge.

Twenty - Love

Karston and I were jumping on his trampoline this afternoon. He fell on his back and laughed so I could see all of his teeth. Yes, all: all of his teeth are in. #20 snuck out! I counted just to be sure. Luckily he's been joining Daddy for tooth brushing. He used to dislike it, but now he'll usually do a good job himself, and doesn't mind when Daddy does a touch-up.

Karston and Cale really love each other. A thunderstorm just came through, and both boys woke up. Cale is nursing. However, when he heard Karston cry, he stopped nursing and started crying too. Cale really looks up to his big brother! For his part, Karston is always saying I want to ____ baby brother, where the verb is often hug, hold, kiss, see, or read with. Karston would be perfectly happy to be in charge of all of Cale's care. He even wants to inspect used diapers visually. Karston was really disappointed that he couldn't nurse Cale, but we explained his ta-ta's, like Daddy's, weren't big enough to have food. I think he finally felt better knowing Daddy has to miss out too. (with two sharp teeth, I don't think they're missing out.) So now Karston will occasionally tell me I have really big ta-ta's, and he's not sure why we laugh so much about that. We're very proud of our boys for getting along so well already.